Dare to be Scared-2

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New attitude, new opportunities, new chapter.  This is where we left off regarding my daughter and her ‘scary’ decision. She quit her job, left her friends, drove across the country and moved.  All to make a change for her future.

So where are we today?  Even as positive as I am, this happened so fast, and is so amazing, it is just so God. She sent out 7 resumes, on a Monday, by the end of the day, she had an interview on Tuesday, they hired her full-time on Wednesday.  She is now working, has benefits- yippee, and is getting ready to move into her own apartment.  It is such a God thing.  I know He has great plans for her.  She is working in a women’s rehab facility.  She will be able to help others, to make a difference, and she is good at it.

We all have times when we are called upon to make big and drastic changes, times when the change is subtle, and times of rest.  Wherever you are I wish you God’s blessing.  He has people for you to touch, a way to make a difference.  He does for all of us.  Isn’t that the Best?!

Many Blessings

Delinda

QUESTION:   What kind of change do you want? Say it out loud. I’d be honored if you would share it with me. I’d love to know your thoughts.

I’d love your comments – see area below.

I am available to speak to your group.  To  Reserve a Date –

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QUESTION:   What does it mean to you take to be a Fun and Fearless?

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Dare to be Scared

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Dare to be Scared. The Quotes from the last post were amazing and thank you to all those who added to the list.  I guess the next question is what do we do with all those cool thoughts and ideas.

We can think about them or we can ACT on them.  It’s pretty simple really, just decide which one (s) you want to take to heart.  It may inspire you to think differently or to act differently.  It might even scare you – and that is OK.

Let me share a story. My daughter just made a huge change in her life.  You know the saying, ‘If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’ve got”?  Well, she realized this.  She called a month or so ago and told me that she was beginning realize that if she continued to live in southern California, that she would never be able to get ahead.  It is so expensive to live out there.  Housing, gas, computing, etc., are so costly, and there are not a lot of job opportunities to make the kind of income to support it.  She thought it out, made a decision, made a plan, and then DID IT.  She took a little time, and got things set up, which is very important by the way to not be totally impulsive when you make these changes.

We lived in Kansas City for many years, basically where she grew up, and where her brother lives.  She sold some of her items, brought some of them to Vegas to leave with us, and then headed to KC to find a job and begin a new chapter in her life.  Drastic and a little scary–yes.  But here is the cool part, she was willing to do whatever it took, to make a change. She even told me she would waitress, which she hates, but she was willing to do it in order to open up opportunities for a better life.  She is now in KC, close to her brother and back with her friends.  New attitude, new opportunities, new chapter.

The change you want for your life may not be as drastic as this, but look at what you want.  What is your heart telling you?  Really listen.  You might be surprised at what God is saying.

Oh, and I’ll fill you in on her progress – next time =)

Many Blessings

Delinda

QUESTION:   What kind of change do you want? Say it out loud. Share it with me, I’d love to know your thoughts.

I’d love your comments – see area below.

I am available to speak to your group.  To  Reserve a Date –

delinda@delindalayne.com       702-510-1212     http://www.delindalayne.com

Quotes- Right On!

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These Quotes are Right On!  I just love reading what great thoughts other people have, so I am sharing with You! A change in thinking can change our lives. A change in our thoughts, will change our perspective, which changes our choices, and ultimately will change our lives.  As you read them,  see if you agree.  I’d love to know your favorite.

“Human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes.”
– Norman Vincent Peale, 1898-1993, inspirational speaker, writer and U.S. clergyman

“Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”
– Napoleon Hill, 1883-1970, motivational lecturer and author, writing in his bestseller, “Think and Grow Rich”

“A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug.”
– Patricia Neal, 1926- , American stage and film actress

“The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind.”
– William James, 1842-1910, U.S. pragmatist, philosopher and psychologist

“Let our advance worrying become advance thinking and planning.”
– Winston Churchill, 1874-1965, British politician

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.”
– George Eliot (real name, Mary Ann Evans), 1819-80, American author

“Our attitude toward life determines life’s attitude towards us.”
– Earl Nightingale, 1921-1989, motivational author,  philosopher and syndicated radio personality

“Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail.”
– Charles Kettering, 1876-1958, US electrical engineer & inventor

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help with man with the wrong mental attitude.”  – Thomas Jefferson, 1743-1826, third president of the United States

“As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is…” Bible, Proverbs 27:3

Delinda

QUESTION:  Which one of these is your favorite?  Or maybe you would like to add a quote to our list.  Bring it on!

I’d love your comments – see area below.

I am available to speak to your group.  To  Reserve a Date –

delinda@delindalayne.com       702-510-1212     http://www.delindalayne.com

Better – More – How About Different?

Something Better – Something More – Something Different

Often we think of change as something Better or something More.  It can also be for something Different.  As women we tend to fill up our days and lives based on the needs of others, and that is a good thing, to a point.  If all of our time is spent focusing on others, we don’t have any time left for ourselves and what God has created us to be, as a person, as an individual. We are sometimes so busy doing for others we don’t take the time to even listen. Please understand that I am not saying to NOT focus on others, or not take care of your family.  I am saying that you can do those things and still find a few moments for you.  Moments for you to enjoy and grow as a person, to be ‘you’.  You deserve it.

Many times this doesn’t happen until the kids are grown or have moved out, or when you or your husband retires.  That’s all good, but I propose that you look at today.   I know women who decided to go to the gym or a workout class 3 times a week.  They are doing something for themselves, feeling better, and truly feel better to continue with the busy schedule of their lives.

Maybe it is taking 2 hours out a week to take a class of some type.  Something you’ve always wanted to learn about, a photography class, or a ceramic class, or maybe learn a language.  Why not?

Here’s a thought, maybe you’d like to just have 1-2 hours to sit alone and read a book, (ooo luxury, right?),   but your house is always crazy and there are so many distractions.  Most cities have great libraries, and even though I didn’t really like going to the library when I was younger, I find that now they are a great resource.  Quiet, focus, no distractions, and time alone… what’s not to like =).

Subtle, drastic, slight, big, it doesn’t matter, sometimes change is nice.

My last thought for today.  If your life is full of change, so much you just can’t even think of another one and the last thing you want is change. Then Stop.  Don’t do anything different.  Stop and rest and you’ll know when it’s time again to move forward.

Blessings

Delinda

QUESTION:  What is the one thing you would like to be different?

I’d love your comments – see area below.

I am available to speak to your group.  To  Reserve a Date –

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Change – Resist or Embrace It

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Change – many people like it, some are resistant, some hate it, and some won’t even think about it.  Which are you?

As I was getting my nails done last week, my nail tech and I talked about this.  There are so many people who are unhappy, hate their their job, their status in life, and tell us about it all the time.  There are those that want more but don’t do anything about it.   In my years in Mary Kay, and as I travel the country,  I have worked with a lot of women.  What I’ve found is  that many times a woman would rather stay in the ‘known’, even though she is unhappy, than take a chance for happiness in the ‘unknown’.

Sure change can be scary and overwhelming, but it can also be invigorating and wonderful.  It can open doors of opportunities that can enrich your life and take you to new places.  Personally, I love change.  Bill and I are risk takers, we like to step out of our comfort zone and mix things up a bit.

Some of you who know us may laugh at this as our day to day life is actually rather calm and sometimes seems boring. We don’t go out a lot, or do adventure vacations.  We tend to step out in the bigger things.  If you’ve read my blog a while you’ll remember we have moved over a dozen times and have owned a couple of companies.  I’ll talk to you sometime about the other personal changes I have been making as well.

Here’s a couple of thoughts for you

  1. What would you like to change in your life?
  2. What would that change look like?
  3. What is ONE step you could take today that could move toward that change?  (For instance, if you are seeking better health, maybe today drink more water, etc)

You have a choice, Yes you do.  You can stay where you are and keep getting what you’ve got (the definition of insanity being, if you keep on doing what you are doing, you will keep getting what you’ve got)

Or you can make one small change today, and then keep making small changes.  Next week, next month, next year, your life will be different based on the choices you are making today.  (Oh that sounds like  song…… maybe I’ll write one =)

Blessings

D

Delinda

QUESTION:  Are you willing to make one small change today?  What is that change?

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SMILE =)

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“Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person,  a beautiful thing.”   Mother Teresa.      

Some of you read these wonderful quotes from Mother Teresa this week on Facebook, but in case you missed them, or would like to read again– Here are a few.  Have a blessed weekend.

images“Spread the love of God through your life but only use words when necessary.”

“The person who gives with a smile is the best giver because God loves a cheerful giver.”

“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.”  (OOOO I love this one)

“A life not lived for others is not a life.”

“We know only too well that what we are doing is nothing more than a drop in the ocean. But if the drop were not there, the ocean would be missing something.”

“I can do things you cannot, you can do things I cannot; together we can do great things.” (AMEN- isn’t this great?!)

“Let us make one point, that we meet each other with a smile, when it is difficult to smile. Smile at each other, make time for each other in your family.”

“The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.”

“We, the unwilling, led by the unknowing, are doing the impossible for the ungrateful. We have done so much, for so long, with so little, we are now qualified to do anything with nothing.”    (Now this one is deep… gotta think about it a while)

“Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.”

“The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.”

“It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.”

“Smile at each other. Smile at your wife, smile at your husband, smile at your children, smile at each other- it doesn’t matter who it is-and that will help to grow up in greater love for each other.”

SMILE!  ENJOY YOUR DAY =)

Delinda

QUESTION:  What is one of your favorite quotes?

I’d love your comments – see area below.

I am available to speak to your group.  To  Reserve a Date –

delinda@delindalayne.com       702-510-1212     http://www.delindalayne.com